Story: special surrender technique
Namaskar,
When
I came in contact with Baba in 1966, I went to Jamalpur, and He graced
me by giving me personal contact (PC). In that personal encounter, Baba
pointed out my mistakes and punished me. Then He ordered me to
surrender. But I had no idea how to surrender. I was totally unaware
about what to do.
https://anandamargauniversal.blogspot.com/Mentally
I was asking Baba, "How do I surrender? What should I do?" I was in a
quandary as to what to do, i.e. how to surrender. Mentally, I was
pleading with Him to show me the way.
Then
Baba said, "Just become like a very small infant." Hearing this, I
understood what to do, and I fell at His lotus feet, giving everything
of myself, by His grace, and surrendering myself to Him. And Baba
blessed me.
Surrender: be like a helpless childMany
people think that simply lying in sastaunga pranam is surrender or
mentally thinking, "I surrendered", is actually surrendering to Guru.
But that does not work; that is not the operative factor. Because when
one keeps something for oneself, one's ego or I-feeling is still active,
then that type of "surrender" is meaningless. Then there are still
others who think that surrendering is like a military or police arrest
where you just surrender physically, and hold onto your ego, pride,
vanity, and other mental baggage. This also is a point of confusion.
In
spirituality there must be cent-per-cent surrender in the
psycho-spiritual realm. So Baba's teaching of being like an infant is
ideal. One must think that, "I have nothing - nothing belongs to me -
everything is of Parama Purusa." Then the true feeling of surrender
comes. The infant does not have anything of its own. A small baby does
not fall prey to ego, vanity, intellect, or fortune etc, whereas
grown-ups often think that they have something (career, beauty,
knowledge, wealth, name, fame etc) and then after doing some type of
show or drama of surrender, they cannot get success. It does not work.
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the case of an infant, that baby literally has nothing. That small
child feels helpless, and with that feeling it depends on its mother.
Until one is helpless one cannot surrender fully; one will maintain
their own unit I-feeling. They think, "This much I can do and You Parama
Purusa have to do the rest." This is not good. One must surrender fully
just like the small child never thinks it can manage on its own. So
that helpless baby surrenders unconditionally to mother, whereby the
mother is forced to come to the baby's rescue. When a sadhaka surrenders
with that same psychology (i.e. unconditionally) then Guru is sure to
accept.
One who boasts of anything of this world is a foolSo
that is what a sadhaka must emulate in their spiritual life when
surrendering to Guru. A sadhaka must give everything of themselves,
without holding back anything. Then that will be surrender in the real
sense of the term.
Ananda
Marga philosophy guides, "Prańipáta means complete surrender to the
Eternal Entity, Parama Puruśa. The mental attitude that “whatever is, is
from Parama Puruśa and nothing is mine” is prańipáta. One who has ego,
one who thinks that one’s intellect, wealth and other things are one’s
own, is the greatest fool. A person boasts of learning, intellect and
fortune. But nothing is eternal. Therefore one who boasts of anything of
this world is a fool. The worst psychic knot is the false vanity of
intellect. Whatever is, is of Parama Puruśa; nothing is yours. Hence
there should be complete surrender to Parama Puruśa. This is the first
indispensable factor for mental development. If you really want to serve
the world, complete surrender at the feet of Parama Puruśa is a must."
(1)
Ananda
Marga philosophy guides, "If you want to attain the bliss of Brahma,
you must offer your own self. If you want to have the Great “I”, you
must give away your own little “I”. You have to give the full sixteen
annas, (the full rupee). Giving fifteen annas and holding back one anna
will not do. You must completely surrender." (2)
Your
reliance on Him holds great value. All mundane things are limited in
scope and reach. They cannot save and protect you in all circumstances.
Whereas Parama Purusa is omnipresent and all-powerful. In all
situations, He is there to save you. And not just in this life, but
after your death and in all future lives - always He is there. In
contrast, mundane wealth has a limited reach in this life and absolutely
zero value after your death. That is why every bhakta should think,
"All these mundane treasures are of limited use, but You Parama Purusa,
Your reach is infinite and Your eyes are everywhere. Always You are
present to help and protect me; You are my eternal Bandhu. That is why I
am surrendering my everything - my mind and heart - unto You.”
https://anandamargauniversal.blogspot.com/Who can never attain spiritual progress in lifeAnanda
Marga philosophy guides us, "If human beings cannot surrender
themselves at the altar of Parama Puruśa they can never attain spiritual
progress in life. Without total surrender, Macrocosmic grace is not
attained, and without Macrocosmic grace nothing is attained. Besides
this there is no other way, (Nányah Panthá Vidyateyanáya)." (3)
Ananda
Marga ideology states, “What is the meaning of “prańipáta?” The word
“prańipáta”; is derived from the Saḿskrta prefix “Pra” + “ni” + “pat” +
“ghaiṋ” prań – ni – pat + ghaiṋ. Prańipáta means “total surrender”. But
where should one surrender? At the altar of one's goal. The sádhaka
should surrender totally and selflessly at the base of that altar. And
to whom should one surrender? One is to surrender to the supreme goal of
one's life, to the highest point of one's supreme stance.” (4)
Ananda
Marga Ideology says, “My opinion is that it is proper for human beings
to leave everything to Paramátmá, because those who are truly devotees
know that Paramátmá is much wiser than they. This is what is known as
prańipáta, and this is fulfilled by parábhakti. There is no
alternative.” (5)
ConclusionBaba
has graced us with tantra sadhana and given the special teaching that
for the sadhaka, surrender is everything. And in the above story, Baba
graciously presents us with a simple, practical way how to surrender: Be
like a small infant. By following this guideline sincerely, one can
attain the highest peak and reach the Supreme Goal, by His grace.
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mindset should be that, "Only Parama Purusa is my eternal abode and
Saviour; material wealth is completely impermanent; if my ship is
sinking in the middle of the ocean, my money will not be able to save
me; because the reach of that wealth is limited; whereas, Parama
Purusa's reach is infinite; there is no place where He is not; so all
along I am depending only on Him; my mundane wealth is only for
attending to worldly duties and responsibilities." Thus, it does not
matter how much wealth one has; the degree of surrender is wholly based
on how much you truly rely and depend upon Him.
Namaskar,
In Him,
Jaidev
Note: The above story has been recounted by our margii brother, Shrii Nishikanta Laghate of Nagda, Madya Pradesh.
~ In-depth study ~Here is an English summary of the Hindi teaching from Dharma aor Pragati, NP, DMC 1 January 1963 Patna
When
human beings feel that, ‘Parama Purusa is my everything’, then that is
called as sharan (shelter). No entity can come under the sharan
(shelter) of two different things. Then what is the meaning of
sharanagati (surrender)? When living beings give up their ‘I-feeling’ by
withdrawing the mind from any other object and feel that Parama Purusa
alone is my everything. Up to the time when living beings are thinking
that they are working with their own strength, then you should
understand that the feeling of sharanagati has not yet come in them. And
when human beings think that, ‘I am doing the work only with His
strength’, it means the feeling of sharanagati has come in their mind.
So when living beings start thinking that, ‘Whatever work I am doing, I
am doing with His strength’, then they have the feeling of sharanagati.
True
Ananda Margiis will take their sick baby to the hospital. According to
their God-given capacity and strength, they will provide all kinds of
nursing, medicine, medical care, and whatever is needed. And side by
side, they will go on thinking: "O' Lord, with the strength given by
You, I am trying, but without Your grace nothing will happen. You are
the real Doer. I am fully surrendering unto Your sweet will. Let Your
desire be fulfilled. "
Bhaktas
think one should use all their inherent abilities to solve any crisis
and cultivate the idea that, “It is His strength and that He is
supplying the energy - and without His energy, I cannot do anything. If
He wishes then only will I be rescued - it is fully depending on Him.”
Whatever strength God has given must be utilised remembering that He is
the final doer. This is the ideal way of surrender.
https://anandamargauniversal.blogspot.com/Shrii Nishikanta Laghate's above story brings an important point to light.
References1. Ananda Vacanamrtam - 1, The Three Factors for Spiritual Elevation
2. Subhasita Samgraha - 3, Vibration, Form and Colour
3. Tattva Kaomudi - 3, Bhakti and Krpá
4. Ananda Vacanamrtam - 6, Three Fundamental Factors to Succeed in Sádhaná Márga
5. Ananda Marga Ideology & Way of Life - 10, The Cardinal Spirit of Action and the Supreme Stance of Devotion
Plagiary?
It is the accepted international standard and Baba's system not to copy another's work and publish it in your own way. Baba has given a very strict rule on plagiarism. Why is Baba against plagiarism or stealing someone's work? There are many reasons:
1) It is against the code of asteya (non-stealing).
2) Countless stories of bhaktas need to be published. But some do not want to do the hard work of compiling and writing these stories, so they just steal them from others. But new stories need to be told, otherwise so many unpublished stories of sadhakas will be lost and forgotten forever. So watch out for story thieves, and kindly help them not to steal by posting on social media in their own way. If you want to forward this story then attach the following yellow section with the story:
“Courtesy of unknown bhakta via Ananda Marga Universal (https://anandamargauniversal.blogspot.com/)”
This will be treated as the standard protocol.
== Section 2: Prabhat Samgiita ==
I have come to follow YouNote: Only those who sincerely practice the higher lessons of sahaja yoga meditation can understand this song in the depths of their heart.
"Tandra' yadi a'se he prabhu bheunge dio..." (Prabahta Samgiita #2497)
Purport:
My Parama Purusa, Baba please bless me so that I can better serve You. If tandra', if spiritual drowsiness, ever clouds my being then destroy it. And if vanity ever enters into my mind, then pulverise that into the dust and keep me in Your shelter. I request that You bless me so that I can follow You.
My nearest Entity, if I ever forget You and move along the sinful path, then with a thunderous voice kindly guide and discipline me, and bring me back under Your shelter. Parama Purusa, I have come onto this earth - You have brought me here - to do Your work, to serve You by doing mantra japa, kiirtan, sadhana, and dhyana.
Supreme Entity, Baba, I have come here to move on the pathway which You have shown me. I ask that You soak my mind with this divine truth: The sole reason for my birth is to serve You. You are the be-all and end-all of my life.
Baba, be ever-merciful so that I can remain at Your lotus feet permanently, forever and ever...
Note for Prabhat Samgiita #2497
[1] Tandra': (Literally meaning 'drowsiness') In the above Prabhat Samgiita, tandra does not mean physical weariness but rather drowsiness in the spiritual realm. When people remain oblivious of the spiritual world, and when they think that sadhana is for the future only, their life passes only in mundane thoughts and preoccupations. By this way the mind gradually gets debased.
This state of remaining oblivious to one's spiritual life is known as tandra, or drowsiness in the spiritual sense. As we know Prabhat Samgiita is divine - not mundane. For this reason we can understand when the term tandra' is used in this song it refers to the spiritual realm.
Baba has told that one can only properly understand Prabhat Samgiita when the mind is at the trikuti (ajina cakra) or above. Otherwise one cannot understand the meaning. Sometimes in Prabhat Samgiita Baba uses terms related with mundane life; but this is usually done as an allegory only. The inner sense is something deeper. So on the mundane level tandra' means physical drowsiness but in this song it refers to spiritual drowsiness.
In this materialistic era, people are more involved in their material gain than their spiritual progress.
Here are Baba's comments on tandra' and spiritual drowsiness and lethargy.
Ananda Marga ideology says, "Every human being, from the age of fourteen or fifteen, has an innate desire to ideate on Parama Purus'a. With cosmic ideation one will attain vast expansion of mind, one will become great in all respects. No one can check the all-round progress of such a person. People realise this and yet ignore it and thus waste their time getting old for nothing. That is, they waste their time in non-spiritual pursuits. This is called 'spiritual lethargy'. It causes the greatest harm to human life because it results in only a very small percentage of the human potentiality - maybe one or two percent - being utilised by humans. Even those who we call great personalities hardly use ten percent of their potentialities. Due to spiritual lethargy people are unable to progress, and thus remain very ordinary. They come to the world, live, decay and die as ordinary human beings." (1)
And here Baba explains about tandra' and the six defects:
Nidra' tandra' bhayam' krodha a'lasyam' diirghasu'trata';
S'ad'ados'a'h purus'en'eha ha'ntavya'h bhu'timicchata'.Ananda Marga ideology says, "Those who want to prosper in life must destroy these six defects in themselves: nidra' [sleep], tandra' [drowsiness], a'lasya [lethargy], bhaya [fear], krodha [anger], and diirghasu'trata' [procrastination]." (2)
References
1. Ananda Vacanamrtam - 8, 'Bad Habits Which Should Be Given Up'
2. Ananda Vacanamrtam - 31, 'Sleep & Inertia'
== Section: Important Teaching ==
Ananda Marga philosophy states, “What a dangerous outlook! What a rosy philosophy of capitalism! God save humanity from such perverted philosophy. Man’s desire for worldly pleasure does not cease until he finds a really great ideal. His hunger is insatiable. The wolf in him seems to say over and over again, “I am hungry, I am hungry.” His mouth is agape all the time and the fools of the earth, resigned to their belief in predestination, are swallowed by it. These wolves eat up their flesh and blood and cast away their insipid bones. Are we to support this wolfish philosophy? The dirty-clothed laborers, their faces lined with hard labor and fatigue, are not human beings in the eyes of those who have Mammon by their side. The characteristic of a vested interest is that it has no other thought but itself. The selfish man is the eater, the others are his food. His needs are never-ending. Out of his salary the poor man has to pay his house rent, support his family, educate his children, provide milk for his baby, marry his daughters. Are those necessities only for the people of the upper classes? Are these not the minimum necessities of life? Yes, but these thoughts of the poor are no concern of the rich! Such thinking involves some sacrifice, does it not? From where would objects of luxury for the rich come, if hunger were not the hard task-master of the poor? Let the daughters of the poor collect cow-dung forever and their sons be slaves in the households of the rich. What a fine arrangement! The high hopes of the poor?–pooh! pooh!! Aren’t they all moonshine?”
“No two things in the world are alike. So I do not suggest recasting everything into one mold. Still, for humanism and justice, equitable distribution of the resources of the universe is indispensable; co-ownership of the world’s resources is the birthright of every individual. Even a small attempt at depriving someone of this right is gross selfishness. Except when a special favor becomes necessary to give certain individuals impetus and inspiration, all persons must be given equal rights and opportunities in all spheres. Every individual must have equal rights regarding food, clothing, housing, medical aid and education — those things that are absolutely necessary for existence.” (1)
References
1. Human Society-1, Social Justice
== Section: Prabhat Samgiita ==
उच्च स्तर के भक्त की पुकारप्रभात संगीत 255 आमि तोमार लागिया जागिया रएछी, सतत तोमार पथ चेये...
परिचय - यह गीत प्रथम श्रेणी के भक्ति भाव को प्रदर्शित करता है। भक्त अपनी साधना कर रहा है बड़ी ही गहराई से ध्यान में वह परमपुरुष की निकटता का अनुभव करते करते अचानक पाता है कि परमपुरुष उसके मानसिक पटल से ओझल हो गये। इस दुख पूर्ण स्थिति में वह विछोह का अनुभव करते हुए परम पुरुष से लौट आने का अनुरोध करता है। भक्त के हृदय से इसी स्थिति को गीत के माध्यम से प्रकट किया गया है परंतु वे जो उच्च स्तर के भक्त नहीं हैं इसे नहीं समझ सकते।
भावार्थ
हे परमपुरुष ! मैं तुम्हारे लिये जाग रहा हॅूं। तुम्हारे आने से होने वाले आनन्द की आशा में , मैं तुम्हारे आने के रास्ते को रोज ही देख रहा हॅूं। तुम्हारी कृपा से मेरा मन भक्ति भाव में बह रहा है। मैं केवल तुम्हीं को चाहता हॅूं। मैंने तुम्हारे लिये एक फूलों की माला बना ली है। तुम्हारे आने की प्रतीक्षा में सभी तैयारियाॅं भी कर ली हैं। इसलिये हे मेरे परमप्रिय ! चुपचाप मेरे मन में केवल मेरे होने के लिये आ जाओ।
हे परमपुरुष ! तुमने अपने प्रेम के आकर्षण की रस्सी से मुझे क्यों बाॅंध लिया है। तुमने मुझे अपनी चाहत के आंसुओं में क्यों डुबो दिया है। हे मेरे परमप्रिय ! तुमने ये क्यों किया है ? अब मैं तुम्हें कभी नहीं भूल सकता। तुम्हारी सूरत मेरे मन के परदे पर हर समय तैरती रहती है।
हे बाबा ! मैं जो कुछ सोचता हॅूं तुम उसके पीछे अवश्य ही रहते हो। पता नहीं मैं, ये कैसी विपदा में फँस गया हॅूं। इस कारण अब तुम चुपके चुपके, चोरी से, मेरे मन में आकर केवल मेरे ही हो जाओ।
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