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Thursday, August 22, 2019

Photos of the deceased: proper / improper + 3 more


Baba


Photos of the deceased: proper / improper

Namaskar,

In some places, when any person dies then often they show a photo of the lifeless body. Suppose the person was a banker or a lawyer, or a common poor or rich person etc, then when announcing that person’s death, a photo of the corpse is presented. This is the common trend in some places. And this approach has been adopted by various other countries as well. But such an approach contravenes the spirit of satya. Because that photo will unnerve and shock those who see it; furthermore, it is a disrespectful way to present the deceased.

It is commonly understood that satya is not merely limited to what we speak, but covers all forms of communication. So when a person dies, and an announcement is given of their death, then one should not present an image of the lifeless body. That is both jarring and harmful to the mourning family members and concerned people, and it is an injustice to the deceased. If one wishes to share a photo, then it should be of photo of that person when they were full of vigour.
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Conclusion

Here the point is that we should present the deceased in a favourable manner, one which honestly depicts them in good health and full of zeal etc. When we use those types of positive images, then that is in accordance with the spirit of satya. Whereas, presenting a photo of the person three minutes or three days after they died is clearly against the spirit of satya. The operating factor is that we always have to consider what effect our words and actions will have on others. The basic approach is to select photos of the deceased that show them in a positive light.

In Him,
Dhiidhar

Ripple effect

There is also this aspect. If we show a photo of the deceased in any public announcement etc, then those viewers will be violating the code of cakuna samvaro. Because we are exposing them to unfavourable images that have an adverse effect on the mind.

Cakkhuná saḿvaro sádhu, sádhu sotena saḿvaro;
Ghánena saḿvaro sádhu, sádhu jihbáya saḿvaro;
Káyena saḿvaro sádhu, sádhu vácáya saḿvaro;
Manasá saḿvaro sádhu, sádhu sabbattha saḿvaro.


Ananda Marga ideology states, “Think once before you speak. If you have the eyes to see, cast a quick glance before you look at anything, otherwise, do not look at all, because whatever you see will influence the mind. Don’t listen to anything which is not worth hearing. Only listen to that which purifies and elevates the mind.” Human beings should control their organs in this way.” (1)


Which photo to select

So if the person was a banker, then a photo of that person can be displayed where he is in the prime of his life and seated at a desk or in an important meeting. And if the person was a lawyer, then the photo might be of him walking up the steps into the courthouse. Alternatively, if the deceased was a committed family man, then it would be appropriate to select a photo of them with their children. And if the person was an Ananda Margi, then we should show a photo of them seated in sadhana, or dancing kiirtana, or doing service work, or taking part in a spiritual conference etc. The photo can be any positive image of their personal, professional, or spiritual life.
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This relative reality is full of gains and losses, joys and sorrows, successes and disappointments. As we navigate through the world, it is our duty as sadhakas to adhere to the code of satya and ensure our expression embodies the spirit of benevolence.

Ananda Marga philosophy states, “Satya implies proper action of mind and the right use of words with the spirit of welfare.” (2)

As sadhakas, we have to be wary of this on all fronts. We always have to consider how our words and actions affect others.

References
1. Ananda Vacanamrtam - 7, An Exemplary Life
2. A Guide to Human Conduct, Satya


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The below sections are entirely different topics, unrelated to the above material.
They stand on their own as points of interest.

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== Section 2: Prabhat Samgiita ==

I only revere & follow Baba

Note: Only those who sincerely practice the higher lessons of sahaja yoga meditation can understand this song in the depths of their heart.

"Dharmo a'ma'ri sa'thii, dharmo a'ma'ri pra'n'..." (Prabhat Samgiita #1103)

Purport:

Dharma is my eternal companion; dharma is my very life force. I only revere and follow Parama Purusa; my existence is due to His blessing. He alone has blessed me with human life. He alone has granted me my existence. It is His affection.

Since the first dawn of my life, when my mind came into being, Parama Purusa has been with me each and every step. In my every breath, He is watching, guiding, and protecting me. And only He will remain along with me until the final moment of my life, i.e. moksa. I always follow His path, and His teachings, never forgetting His blessing.

O' inhabitants of the three worlds, wherever you may be, go on singing and dancing, immersed in His divine name. Remain ensconced in His ideation, i.e. shravana, manana, nididyasana and in His sweet flow; and go on singing His blissful songs, i.e. singing His glory, that will open the door of moksa..

Baba, You are my eternal companion. You are always with me…

Note for Prabhat Samgiita #1103:

Throughout the vast gift of Prabhat Samgiita, in most songs the bhakta and Parama Purusa are communicating with one another. In some of the songs the style of conversation is direct while others are indirect. When the style of expression is indirect, confused people sometimes think that the sadhaka is having a conversation with another sadhaka. That is not at all the case. Rather, the bhakta is communicating with Parama Purusa - using indirect language.

In the above song, in the first two stanzas the sadhaka is talking to Parama Purusa. The sadhaka is expressing his feelings and referring to Parama Purusa in an indirect manner - using the term He or Parama Purusa, not You etc. It is just like a child talking to its mother and calling the mother as “she”, not you. Yet all along the sadhaka is only talking to Parama Purusa. No one else is there listening.  It is only in the third stanza, the sadhaka is addressing all of creation, with the knowledge that Parama Purusa is also listening.


== Section 3: Important Teaching ==

Jinanis adopt falsehood than concede defeat

Here is an English summary of Baba’s Hindi teaching:

There is one defect in jinanis. Two jinanis cannot agree on any point. Among them, many jinanis believe that agreeing means accepting one’s defeat. Indeed there are some godly qualities in jinanis. Such as they can speak in flowery language. Or that with their grandiloquence they can prove day as night, and night as day. If in the daytime one jinani tells to anyone that it is night, or if during the night they tell that it is day, and if the next person does not accept what the jinani is telling, then the jinani will use their logic and reasoning to prove that person as a top-grade fool. And he (the jinani) will make it look like the next person could not understand this one simple thing. Because of this, in the scriptures is it said, ‘Mathitva…’ Meaning: if an unfathomable amount of milk is turned into butter and whey, then jinanis argue and quarrel about the whey and in so doing the butter gets rotten and destroyed. (1)

Reference
1. English summary of Varna Victira (H), p. 49-50



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Sunday, August 18, 2019

Mahaprayan of one avadhuta


Baba

Mahaprayan of one avadhuta

Namaskar,

It is with much sadness that we share the news of the mahaprayan of Ácárya Cittośananda Avadhúta. Tragically, Dada ji breathed his last as his mahaprayan occurred on Sunday, 18 August 2019 at 9:05am at the MG Quarter Laspinas, Manila, Maharlika (Philippines). Dada ji had been sick for the last few years. On this solemn occasion of his mahaprayan, Dada ji was 79 years old. 

Dada Cittośananda was a dedicated and faithful worker of Sadguru Shrii Shrii Anandamurti ji's mission. He was very diligent and industrious in carrying out his many works, including his longtime duty as serving as sectorial office secretary. Verily Dada ji was was ever-ready do anything and everything in service to Marga Guru and was well loved by all. With his mahaprayan, our entire Ananda Marga society is losing a very dear and sincere elder brother. 

May we all take solace in the fact that Ácárya Cittośananda Avadhúta was a bhakta of Sadguru Baba. Certainly he will attain mukti or moksa, accordingly. Baba will lovingly bestow His infinite grace.

in Him, 
Dharmaviira

Note: Alert for those cremating a dead body in India or Indian managed cremation homes around the world. Their custom is to put the burning fire in the mouth of the deceased to initiate the burning of the body. This is prohibited in AM as it is uncivilised. So watch out do not allow this. If you are not careful they will end of doing it. Make them aware ahead of time. 

Ananda Marga Caryacarya states, "The practice of putting fire into the mouth of the dead body is repulsive, it should not be encouraged." (Caryacarya - 1, Disposal of the Dead Body)


~ In-depth study ~

We have seen that when somebody dies then in offering their condolences people say now Mr So-and-so is sitting on Baba's lap. On other occasions when telling a Baba story people also say, "Such and such person sat on Baba's lap." But these days the trend is that "sitting on Baba's lap" is used more in connection with death. And that causes some confusion in reader's mind. To unknot the situation please read below. 

Dogma: if "on Baba's lap" only used for death

Here are quoted lines from recently posted emails on various forums, wherein the writer uses the phrase - "in Baba's lap" - with the occasion of death:\

- "May Parama Purusa Baba accept her in HIS divine lap"

- "We pray to Baba -please give him shelter in his lap... "

- "May his soul rest in the lap of our beloved BABA"

- "Now she is taking rest in Baba's Lap."

- "May Baba accept him in HIS divine lap....."

- "May he rest in HIS loving lap of eternity."

- "We are sure that Baba has taken him in His loving lap."

- "May his soul rest in Baba's lap forever."

- "Let her rest peacefully in Baba's Lap - which she always desired."

- "now he is in beloved Baba's lap"

- "May his soul get peaceful place in His lap"

- "He is now in Bábá's loving lap"

- "May Baba bless him with a seat in His lap."

- "May BABA accept him in HIS divine lap!"

- "May Baba take him in his eternal loving lap."

- "May his soul rest in peace taking shelter in Baba's lap."

- "Please keep him on Your lap forever."

- "We all collectively pray to Baba to take him on Baba's divine lap forever.”

All of the above lines are commonly written in eulogizing the deceased. These days mostly it is used in a eulogy and rarely used to recount one's intimate spiritual experiences - unfortunately. By this way, the phrase "in Baba's lap" is being misused and step by step the real meaning is being forgotten as now people more commonly use the phrase to eulogize those who have died, and much less so to express their inner feelings of bhakti. Unfortunately, the meaning and inner spirit of the phrase is getting lost.


Baba story: "sitting on Baba's lap"

Some time ago after dharmacakra, a senior margii was recounting his experiences of having dharma samiiksa with Baba. He said, "After being lovingly scolded by Baba for my wrongdoings, then He called me close and placed me on His lap - I remained there for some time soaking up His love - and He blessed me."

We all enjoyed hearing about his personal account with Baba during dharma samiiksa. When he finished telling his factual and historical event, there was a call for questions. Various people posed their queries. Towards the end, one new margii raised his hand and asked, "How did Baba bring you back to life?"

Everyone stared at the new margii in amazement. There was a look of astonishment all around - people were really shocked to hear him say this. The new sadhaka sensed that something was wrong He said very matter-of-factly, "I thought that sitting on Baba's Lap means that he (the margii) died - that is why I asked that question."

This was quite eye-opening for those of us in the room: Through our language and expression we had unknowingly taught someone to think that being on Baba's lap is the equivalent of death. Because it seems that nowadays people only use the phrase "Baba's lap" when a person has died, such as "Let him rest peacefully in Baba's lap", as if in order to sit on Baba’s lap one has to die. But that is false. Sincere sadhakas regularly sit on Baba’s lap in their meditation. It is His grace. It is just like a child need not die in order to sit on his father’s lap.

The idea is that this phrase - Baba's lap - has been linked with death due to extreme overuse. So for some time if sadhakas use this phrase exclusively for spiritual purposes, that will be best. The phrase, "sitting on Baba's lap", should not meet a similar fate. It should not lose its pure spiritual quality and just refer to one's death. That will be very negative.

Baba would bless bhaktas and place them on His lap


There are tens of thousands of recorded stories by sadhakas where they use the phrase, "on Baba's lap", when describing their experiences of being with Baba: He used to bless them and bring them on His lap. People should understand the deeply mystical value of this expression, and not just think that Baba's lap means death, i.e. that you can only sit on His lap at the time of death. Still today there are thousands of margiis walking this earth who sat in Baba's lap. And not only that, there are countless more sadhakas who were blessed by Baba in dreams and sadhana wherein they sat in His lap. And still today this deeply intimate experience is attainable by sadhakas, by His grace.

There are so many ways an aspirant can reach unto Baba's lap including in sadhana. That is the main idea that should be preserved. Sadhana is a spiritual practice and one can sit on Baba's lap in sadhana. We should make it cent-per-cent clear to one and all that the phrase, "sitting on Baba's lap", does not mean death.

"Mahaprayan" means death of mortals - confirm for yourself
from the Samsad Bengali-English Dictionary


Mahaprayan (Death): Many are aware that mahaprayan (death) is the common term used in India and especially in our Bengal to describe the death of any human being, even ordinary people. In that way, the obituary columns of the newspapers of Bengal regularly cite the mahaprayan (death) of various persons of society who died or passed away.

Some may get confused and wrongly think that the word 'mahaprayan' (death) is one extraordinarily term of bhakti to be used in association with Parama Purusa. But that is not at all the case. Rather to do so is only to undermine the eternal presence of Parama Purusa. That is why no bhaktas ever use the word 'mahaprayan' in reference to Lord Shiva or Lord Krsna. Because Lord Shiva and Lord Krsna exist eternally. Then there is no question of Their mahaprayan (death).

Baba is Parama Purusa so He is eternal and there is no question of His mahaprayan.

Here it should be known that the convention of an annual death day ceremony (i.e. shraddhainjali or mahaprayan) is a foundation of the Islamic tradition. Muslims are well known for this, and their approach of an annual death day ceremony was adopted by the leader of a particular group in AMPS. So no one should think that mahaprayan is some type of sacred event. It is done on the death day anniversary of Muslims.

And for those who need still more technical proof then all this can be clarified quite readily by referencing the dictionary. Specifically in the Samsad Bengali-English dictionary 3rd edition on page 848. Checking there it will be confirmed that the word 'mahaprayan' means death. Which is why it is used to refer to the passing away of even common citizens. And that is the case in this letter also. The term mahaprayan means death and this is the ideal term for this purpose.

Mahaprayan is only for humans not for Sadguru


Here it should be qualified that there is both real mahaprayan and fake mahaprayan. Real mahaprayan marks the death of any ordinary human being, just like the aforesaid news. This is the proper use of the term: To note a person's departure from this earth. That is the meaning of the mahaprayan term and that is the standard way the term is used in Indian languages.

Then there is the fake, or so-called, or dogmatic mahaprayan. That is when certain vested interests try to apply the mahaprayan term to Parama Purusa. This is grossly inappropriate because when Parama Purusa Sadguru Baba is that Divine Entity who is beginningless and endless and resides always in our heart, then it is entirely wrong to proclaim that He is gone.

That is why rational margiis are protesting; because the Oct 21st program is so-called mahaprayan. So-called means that something is fake. Parama Purusa is eternal, thus for some vested interests to declare "mahaprayan of Parama Purusa" is nothing but so-called mahaprayan.

Mahaprayan only really happens in the case of human beings, not Parama Purusa. Those doing mahaprayan for Sadguru are hypocrites. On the one side in meditation they ask His grace thinking that He is ever-present, and on the other side they think that Baba has passed way. That is their hypocrisy.


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